YOU’RE TIRED OF FEELING
LIKE A MUTED VERSION OF YOURSELF.
YOU CAN UNDERSTAND YOURSELF AND STILL NOT FEEL LIKE YOURSELF.
You can know where the pattern came from.
You can understand the relationship that shaped it, the experience that changed something, the trauma that taught your body to respond a certain way, or why intimacy feels different now.
You can have language for all of it and still find yourself disconnected from your body, overthinking what you want, struggling to trust what feels good, repeating relationship patterns you thought you had already outgrown, or wondering where the version of you who felt more open, curious, confident, and alive actually went.
That doesn’t mean the therapy, healing, or self-awareness you’ve already done failed.
It means understanding what happened to you and changing how it continues to show up in your body and relationships are not always the same process.
That is where Private Work begins.
BECAUSE THE PATTERN DOESN’T ONLY SHOW UP WHEN WE’RE ON A CALL.
01 — WE MAP IT
We start with your history, what’s happening now, your Smutty Desire Quiz result, and the conditions that seem to open you up or shut things down.
02 — WE WATCH IT HAPPEN
Dating. Intimacy. A conversation that gets under your skin. Wanting someone you know is wrong for you. Not wanting someone you think you should. The real-life moments give us information a questionnaire never could.
03 — WE WORK WITH WHAT’S ACTUALLY THERE
Sexology, EFT, somatic work, clinical aromatherapy, smut and fantasy, intuitive or energetic tools - what we use depends on what your particular pattern needs, not what Session Three says we’re “supposed” to do.
04 — WE SEE WHAT CHANGES
Then we adjust. Because the goal isn’t to make you brilliant at explaining your patterns. It’s to give you enough time and support to notice when your experience of yourself starts changing too.
05 — WE STOP MAKING YOU A PROJECT
This work is not about fixing you, endlessly analyzing you, or turning every reaction into another thing to work on.
It’s about helping you understand what’s actually happening, giving you better tools for working with it, and making enough room for you to feel more like yourself again.
And if we haven’t already spoken about Private Work, email me at [email protected] to set up a free Fit Call before purchasing. We’ll make sure this is actually the right next step for you before either of us commits.
PRIVATE WORK WITH CHLOÉ · 8 SESSIONS
WHAT YOU ACTUALLY GET
4 private 1:1 sessions -
60–75 minutes each, usually completed within about three months, with enough space between sessions for real-life patterns to actually show up.
A personalized aromatherapy protocol -
Built around your needs and adjusted as the work evolves, when aromatherapy makes sense for what we’re working on.
Support between sessions
If something meaningful comes up between calls, you can email me rather than waiting until the next session to remember what happened.
The full Smut-Scent Method
Including your Smutty Desire Quiz result, structured smut and fantasy exploration, pattern mapping, and the parts of the method that are most relevant to you.
EFT + somatic work
Used when they help us get out of endless intellectualizing and work with what you’re actually experiencing in your body.
Intuitive + energetic tools
Because sometimes the useful clue shows up faster when we stop trying to force everything through logic.
Resources and referrals when appropriate
If something needs support outside my scope, I’ll help you understand what kind of practitioner or next step may make sense.
HOW THE EIGHT SESSIONS UNFOLD
WE DON’T RUSH THE PART YOUR BODY NEEDS TIME TO LEARN.
01 — MAPPING
We start with your history, what’s happening now, your Smutty Desire Quiz result, and the patterns that shape how you experience intimacy, relationships, desire, and your body. We also look at where trauma, stress, or past experiences may still be influencing what feels safe, wanted, confusing, or completely off-limits.
03 — BODY + FANTASY WORK
This is where we can bring in EFT, somatic tools, clinical aromatherapy, structured smut and fantasy exploration, and the other parts of my process that help us work with what your body has learned instead of only explaining it. Your fantasy life can also give us useful information about the conditions where you feel safer, freer, more wanted, or more able to let go.
02 — REAL-LIFE PATTERN WORK
Then we watch what actually happens between sessions. The person you suddenly stop wanting. The relationship dynamic you know is wrong for you but still feel pulled toward. The moment intimacy feels different than you expected. The reaction that makes perfect sense on paper and still frustrates the hell out of you in real life.
04 — INTEGRATION
We look at what has changed, what still catches you, and what you understand differently now. The goal is not to make you better at analyzing yourself. It’s to leave you with a clearer sense of your patterns, your body, what you want, what you no longer want to tolerate, and how to work with yourself when old responses show up again.
I know where we’re going. I’m not going to pretend every woman needs the exact same road to get there.
HOW I WORK -
I’M NOT INTERESTED IN MAKING YOU BETTER AT EXPLAINING YOURSELF
You may already know exactly why you struggle to trust someone, why intimacy changed after trauma, why certain relationships pull you in, or why your body and your conscious mind seem to have completely different opinions.
That information matters… but I’m interested in what happens after you know why.
So I work across the pieces that are usually separated: sexology, trauma, the body, relationships, fantasy, clinical aromatherapy, EFT, somatic practices, and yes, sometimes a more intuitive or energetic lens when it gives us useful information faster.
I’m not loyal to one tool. I’m loyal to what is actually useful for the woman sitting in front of me.
SCIENCE WITHOUT MAKING YOU A CASE STUDY
Education and sexology give us language for what may be happening without reducing your entire experience to a diagnosis.
TRAUMA-AWARE WITHOUT MAKING TRAUMA YOUR WHOLE IDENTITY
Your past matters when it’s affecting the present. It doesn’t need to become the only interesting thing about you.
A LITTLE WOO, WITH BOTH FEET ON THE GROUND
I use intuitive and energetic tools when they help me notice a useful thread faster. We still stay grounded in what you’re actually experiencing and what makes sense for you.
Hi, I'm Chloé
Sexologist · Certified Clinical Aromatherapist
I started studying sexology because, after my own sexual trauma, I had questions that nobody seemed to be answering particularly well.
Why can your mind understand that you’re safe while your body is having a completely different experience? Why can you want intimacy and still feel disconnected once you’re actually in it? Why can fantasy make you feel wildly alive when your real life feels… considerably less cinematic?
I wanted better answers.
That eventually became a Master’s degree in sexology, certification in clinical aromatherapy, years of studying the ways trauma, relationships, desire, intimate health, and the body overlap, and a practice built around women whose experiences refuse to stay politely inside one category.
Because that’s usually how women arrive here.
It’s rarely just desire. Or just trauma. Or just dating. Or just something happening in the body.
Private Work is for you if
You’re done with things that only get you half-way there
You understand yourself. A lot.
You’ve done therapy, the Clarity Session, your own reading, or years of thinking about this, and you know that understanding why something happens has not automatically changed what happens next.
The Smutty Desire Quiz made something click.
Maybe you finally had language for why certain dynamics, fantasies, or conditions light you up, and now you want to understand what that means outside the quiz result.
You keep finding yourself in patterns you already know you don’t want.
Performing desire you don’t feel. Losing yourself in a relationship. Going quiet when you want to speak. Choosing the same kind of person in a slightly different outfit.
You do not want a copy-and-paste process.
You want your history, your body, your patterns, your aromatherapy protocol, and what is actually happening in your life to shape the work as we go.
You want to work with what happens between sessions, too.
Because sometimes the most useful information shows up three days later, after the date, the argument, the weird body reaction, or the moment you suddenly realize, oh. There it is again.
Trauma is part of the picture, but you don’t want to spend the rest of your life making it the entire picture.
You want to understand where the past is still influencing the present without reducing yourself to what happened to you.
You’re ready to take this seriously.
Not because you need to become another self-improvement project, but because you’re done collecting quick fixes and hoping this one finally sticks.
Haven’t spoken with me yet? Email me at [email protected] to set up a free Fit Call before purchasing.
FROM WOMEN I’VE WORKED WITH
"I really appreciated how personalized each session was and how available you were to answer my questions in between. Your kind, compassionate and practical approach made it easier for me to move forward."
—Ophelia
"Amazing coaching with Chloé. I was able to free myself from my blockages, focus on myself, and enjoy prioritizing me. It feels uplifting and liberating to have someone who sees in us what we don't necessarily manage to see ourselves."
—Manon
"The sessions we had helped me heal from the pain caused by sexual assault in a way I never thought possible. Having clear protocols to follow and knowing you were there for me made such a difference. Today, I feel lighter, stronger, and so much more like me again."
—A
"At no point did I feel lost or without guidance. We proceeded step by step, gently and at my own pace. We never had to relive any painful events. It's a journey toward openness that we undertake together. Now, I have tools that support me during every difficult emotional moment."
—Stephanie
THE INVESTMENT for private work
Four private 1:1 sessions, 60–75 minutes each, usually completed over roughly three months.
Your work is personalized as we go and includes the pieces of my process that are actually relevant to you: from sexological and somatic work to clinical aromatherapy, EFT, structured smut and fantasy exploration, and support between sessions.
If we’ve already had your Fit Call and decided this is the right next step, you can join below.
$888
Haven’t spoken with me yet? Email [email protected] to set up a free Fit Call before purchasing.
FAQ
IS THIS THERAPY?
No. Private Work is coaching and education, not psychotherapy, and it’s designed to work alongside therapy when that support is useful. We can explore patterns around intimacy, desire, relationships, trauma, fantasy, and the body without replacing mental health or medical care.
DO I NEED TO HAVE DONE THERAPY FIRST?
Not necessarily. Some women come to me after years of therapy; others haven’t. What matters more is whether this kind of coaching is appropriate for what you need right now. That’s one of the things we talk about during your Fit Call.
WILL I HAVE TO RELIVE MY TRAUMA?
No. I do not need you to retell painful experiences in graphic detail for us to work with how they may still be affecting your life now. We work at your pace, and you decide what you share.
DO I HAVE TO READ SMUT?
Yes. Smut and fantasy exploration are part of the Smut-Scent Method, so they are built into the work. You won’t be handed random books for the sake of it; the reading is chosen and used intentionally as part of understanding your patterns, preferences, and responses.
DO I NEED TO USE ESSENTIAL OILS?
Yes. Clinical aromatherapy is the other half of the Smut-Scent Method. Your essential oil protocol is personalized to you and used alongside the reading and fantasy work throughout our time together.
WHAT HAPPENS BETWEEN SESSIONS?
You have email support throughout our work together. If something relevant happens in real life (a date, a reaction, a realization, a pattern suddenly becoming painfully obvious…) you don’t have to wait three weeks and hope you remember it.
HOW LONG DOES PRIVATE WORK TAKE?
You receive four 60–75 minute sessions. Most women complete them within roughly three months, but we have some flexibility depending on your schedule and what makes sense for the work.
WHAT IF YOU REALIZE I NEED A DIFFERENT KIND OF SUPPORT?
I’ll tell you. If something falls outside my scope or would be better supported by another professional, I’ll help you identify the kind of practitioner or care that may be more appropriate.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER I PURCHASE?
You’ll take the Smutty Desire Quiz so we have a starting point, and then I’ll personally reach out to schedule your first session.
YOUR MOVE
YOU DO NOT NEED TO BECOME A DIFFERENT WOMAN.
Haven’t had your Fit Call yet? Email [email protected] before purchasing.